"We guys want a girl who looks like a vase!" | Matilda's blog
Look that usually pops up "well-meaning" posts from guys about what kind of body women should and should not seek to have, based on where the "guys" fashion bug (who all apparently have the same taste, and of course also are heterosexual) think is fucking offense .
From chronicles in Expressen where we are told that "almost no guys want girls of 1.80 that barely passes the 40 mark on the scale. Research has shown that men rather like narrow waists combined with wide hips, in other words, curvy girls. "
This post makes me wonder, however, what kind of ideals he advocates. I've heard that a body like the classic Coca Cola bottle would be desirable on the basis of "the male gaze", but a vase? Where does he mean?
(If anyone has a copy of the last vase to spare my birthday on December 12. ;-))
And who cares what the guys in the plural wants, likes etc?? I'm skinny, fat, fit, vasformad or whatever I want for my own sake. The man who I later choose to live with likes me for who I am and thinks I'm fine as I am. I get so damn tired of the "guys" fashion bug who will speak about women in general.
hahahaha it's probably a guy who tells you to think like that. Probably a guy who said that guys like "independent girls that thinks for itself and survive on their own and choose how they want it."
I find it interesting that the post and the comments surrounding it is about men and women in the plural, as if everyone wants the same thing. Attractiveness is probably some of the best individual found.
on November 20th, 2013 on 1:11 pm | Reply Matilda Flodin
How sweet it is with guys who want "nice breasts", or why not a girl with a "nice body." What is "nice breasts" for anything? My breasts are just my breasts, they're not ugly, not fine and whatever someone else's opinion fashion bug so I do not plan to change fashion bug them. Given that the guys who behave intrusively, bad and tough always want to be seen as individuals, so it is ironic that they are so general demands on women's bodies. It's nice breasts, fashion bug nice body, nice hair, nice feet, nice, happy, and has humor here and there all the time.
What someone thinks is "nice" is the highest subjective, so it's not a special general requirement, however. I'll have to find that chest, feet, hair, body or whatever is beautiful or ugly? Does not mean that I require or consider anyone to change their appearance. Just that I think so, and it's my right to think so. I do not need to comment on it for you personally, goes well not up to you and say that your breasts are so-so, but I can surely have an opinion?
I also have the right to convey my general opinion. For example, I can say that I do not like girls who have tattooed a swastika on his forehead. Not that "All guys like it when girls have a swastika on his forehead," but I resent it. What's wrong with that? Really do not understand pongen with your post.
Girls are simply tired of having their bodies totally inappropriately reviewed and evaluated. We do not exist for men's sake, and do not need men's approval for making us feel at ease with our bodies. We do not want men's opinions about our bodies in time and out of season. That's the point.
It's very much generalized right and left. Guys are si and girls are so. It is the individual fashion bug preferences that determine what his preference is. This little boy speaks clearly to all men which is totally fucked. fashion bug But then we come to the generalization from some of you women who are also completely inaccurate. All the guys will judge not women and certainly would not tell his opinion of the person concerned. Women must look exactly how they want to look and no one has the right to speak about their preference for them, because if you do not care about the person cares to either not care about that person's opinion. But no woman has no right to tell me how I should fashion bug be or generalize me among some SMALL FRY and say that all men are one way. Then Lina: When you type "girls" generalizes the exact same way as the little boy up there. You can not possibly know if all the women on this earth is tired of being reviewed. There's probably a lot of women out there who are doing their utmost to be reviewed and get men's opinion on how they look. For every one of you: Type "I" and "mine" and stop using "we" and "guys / girls". It is very annoying to me and apparently it creates pointless debates which leads nowhere.
@ Robban Then it can in some cases be necessary to generalize to a
Look that usually pops up "well-meaning" posts from guys about what kind of body women should and should not seek to have, based on where the "guys" fashion bug (who all apparently have the same taste, and of course also are heterosexual) think is fucking offense .
From chronicles in Expressen where we are told that "almost no guys want girls of 1.80 that barely passes the 40 mark on the scale. Research has shown that men rather like narrow waists combined with wide hips, in other words, curvy girls. "
This post makes me wonder, however, what kind of ideals he advocates. I've heard that a body like the classic Coca Cola bottle would be desirable on the basis of "the male gaze", but a vase? Where does he mean?
(If anyone has a copy of the last vase to spare my birthday on December 12. ;-))
And who cares what the guys in the plural wants, likes etc?? I'm skinny, fat, fit, vasformad or whatever I want for my own sake. The man who I later choose to live with likes me for who I am and thinks I'm fine as I am. I get so damn tired of the "guys" fashion bug who will speak about women in general.
hahahaha it's probably a guy who tells you to think like that. Probably a guy who said that guys like "independent girls that thinks for itself and survive on their own and choose how they want it."
I find it interesting that the post and the comments surrounding it is about men and women in the plural, as if everyone wants the same thing. Attractiveness is probably some of the best individual found.
on November 20th, 2013 on 1:11 pm | Reply Matilda Flodin
How sweet it is with guys who want "nice breasts", or why not a girl with a "nice body." What is "nice breasts" for anything? My breasts are just my breasts, they're not ugly, not fine and whatever someone else's opinion fashion bug so I do not plan to change fashion bug them. Given that the guys who behave intrusively, bad and tough always want to be seen as individuals, so it is ironic that they are so general demands on women's bodies. It's nice breasts, fashion bug nice body, nice hair, nice feet, nice, happy, and has humor here and there all the time.
What someone thinks is "nice" is the highest subjective, so it's not a special general requirement, however. I'll have to find that chest, feet, hair, body or whatever is beautiful or ugly? Does not mean that I require or consider anyone to change their appearance. Just that I think so, and it's my right to think so. I do not need to comment on it for you personally, goes well not up to you and say that your breasts are so-so, but I can surely have an opinion?
I also have the right to convey my general opinion. For example, I can say that I do not like girls who have tattooed a swastika on his forehead. Not that "All guys like it when girls have a swastika on his forehead," but I resent it. What's wrong with that? Really do not understand pongen with your post.
Girls are simply tired of having their bodies totally inappropriately reviewed and evaluated. We do not exist for men's sake, and do not need men's approval for making us feel at ease with our bodies. We do not want men's opinions about our bodies in time and out of season. That's the point.
It's very much generalized right and left. Guys are si and girls are so. It is the individual fashion bug preferences that determine what his preference is. This little boy speaks clearly to all men which is totally fucked. fashion bug But then we come to the generalization from some of you women who are also completely inaccurate. All the guys will judge not women and certainly would not tell his opinion of the person concerned. Women must look exactly how they want to look and no one has the right to speak about their preference for them, because if you do not care about the person cares to either not care about that person's opinion. But no woman has no right to tell me how I should fashion bug be or generalize me among some SMALL FRY and say that all men are one way. Then Lina: When you type "girls" generalizes the exact same way as the little boy up there. You can not possibly know if all the women on this earth is tired of being reviewed. There's probably a lot of women out there who are doing their utmost to be reviewed and get men's opinion on how they look. For every one of you: Type "I" and "mine" and stop using "we" and "guys / girls". It is very annoying to me and apparently it creates pointless debates which leads nowhere.
@ Robban Then it can in some cases be necessary to generalize to a
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